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I need a woman to join me in life to help me garden and make the crappy house I own become a home. I can offer: -a cheap place to stay -loyalty, I won't on you -no money, because I can barely pay my own bills I need you to: -not be addicted to -not have daddy's -not have your head in your azz -want to be a equal partner in life and My best friend (K) and I met in high school. He’s been around since I had my first BF and then my first husband, and then my new BF. For the Holidays he treated me out to the spa (with his sister and a girl he likes) and for my birthday he took me shopping. I thought he was just being generous but at the same time I’ve been seeing other strange occurrences. He came over on a weekday and cooked my BF and I dinner. My BF was full and couldn’t eat the soup he made, so K took offense to that. At 11pm we were getting comfortable and my BF and I started tickling each other and laughing together, and K later told me (after the fact) that it made him feel really uncomfortable. K then tells me that he does not want to me engaged to my BF in the next 3 years or he’ll disapprove of the relationship. That really shocks me because I am not sure why he feels that way. He also says that my BF needs to start hanging out with “us” more and I’m like…”OK…BF is super busy but I’ll if he’ll come along.” When BF finally comes along to out we’re trying to figure out a place to eat. K makes an insensitive comment about my divorce because we were talking about K’s favorite restaurant and where I was supposed to have my wedding reception (was married, no ceremony). BF makes a light joke about going to to lighten up the mood and K totally blows up on him. We both feel unwelcomed and I start to feel distanced and alienated by K, and K tells me never to invite him if my BF is there also…but we live together so it’s basiy K saying that he never wants to out at my place again. He claims he hates my BF and doesn’t want to associate with him, and that of course makes me feel hurt and confused. I also feel like he’s making an unreasonable ultimatum like it’s my BF or him…and I’m shocked at this all because I thought our friendship was platonic. My BF believes that K wants me but he’s always respected our friendship. BF never got jealous or insecure about K and was just as shocked as I at his sudden hostility. What do you guys think…and what should I do?
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